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Truth-seeking over face-saving
Show why this lesson detail matters: "The instinct to never say 'I don't know' in front of a customer is exactly the instinct Cursor is screening against."
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Truth-seeking over face-saving
The instinct to never say "I don't know" in front of a customer is exactly the instinct Cursor is screening against. Anysphere prizes truth-seeking and a guessed answer that turns out wrong costs more trust than a clean "I'll confirm and follow up" ever could.
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The right column loses the moment but wins the relationship
- Tempting (face-saving)
- Confidently guess how data retention works.
- Credible (truth-seeking)
- "I don't want to guess on data handling - let me confirm the exact retention behavior and follow up today."
- Tempting (face-saving)
- Promise a feature is "coming soon" to close the moment.
- Credible (truth-seeking)
- "That's not something I can commit to a date on. Here's what exists today and I'll flag the request to Product."
- Tempting (face-saving)
- Wave away a real limitation.
- Credible (truth-seeking)
- "You're right, that's a current limitation. Here's the workaround and I'll make sure Eng hears the impact."
| Tempting (face-saving) | Credible (truth-seeking) |
|---|---|
| Confidently guess how data retention works. | "I don't want to guess on data handling - let me confirm the exact retention behavior and follow up today." |
| Promise a feature is "coming soon" to close the moment. | "That's not something I can commit to a date on. Here's what exists today and I'll flag the request to Product." |
| Wave away a real limitation. | "You're right, that's a current limitation. Here's the workaround and I'll make sure Eng hears the impact." |
The right column loses the moment but wins the relationship - and is the answer Cursor's values round rewards.